Wednesday 10 January 2018

Reflections of 2017



Happy New Year!

As we reflected on this past year, we tried to think of how to best describe the whole year. The only word we managed to think of was “full.”
Full of children.
Full of change and transition.
Full of basketball.
Full of life lessons.
Full of spiritual growth.
Full of using our spiritual gifts.
Full of memories.
Full of dependence on God.

A full life is a good thing. We truly feel that the Lord is using us to our full capacity.

FOSTER CARE
Our personal ministry and much of our free time is devoted to foster care. When we left working at a school for orphans in Kenya, we knew we still wanted to be involved, in some way, with orphan care. Back in the U.S., we quickly felt the Lord directing us to be involved in foster care. The deeper we get into it, and the more we realize and live-out the challenges and uncertainties with foster care… the more we feel called to continue. It is hard, it is frustrating, it is full of unknowns… yet, it is worth it. While we do desire to have “forever” children, either biologically or through adoption, until God brings us those children, we are glad we can play our part in the community to support some children during a very difficult time in their lives. It has often been HARD. But in those times, we try to imagine what the kids are going through, and we’re pretty sure that it’s much harder for them than it is for us. Our hope is that the kids’ families will be restored and God will redeem their story. Our prayer is that, during their time with us, they will experience a very real example of God’s love, have an example of loving and encouraging parents and a Christ-centered marriage.

In 2017 we had 9 children in our home, from the ages of 0 to 15 years and for lengths of stay from 3 weeks to 5 months. There were surely many struggles, yet the highlights and blessings from our foster care journey this past year were:
·      Seeing 3 siblings reunited with their birth father and go live with him.
·      Spending 2 weeks in the NICU with a precious newborn baby and slowly jumping into caring for her.
·      Gaining great wisdom from the Ezzo’s and Young’s by going through Preparation for Parenting. PARENTS: this is such valuable wisdom. Their Biblically-centered teaching tools are available for children of all ages!! Check out Growing Families Int’l
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5 amazing moths with baby "K". She was a true joy in our lives and we loved caring for her and watching her grow.
·      Caring for "K" helped us better understand a mother or father’s love for their children.
·      Letting go of "K" to return to her birth mom, was terribly difficult yet it helped us grasp an understanding of God’s love for us and how he let his only son come to this broken world and face a very uncertain future.. but ultimately for the Father’s Glory!
·      Teaching "M", a the 15-year old teenager, about the natural consequences in life and the importance of making wise choices.
·      Seeing "M" get excited about her report card of all As and Bs for the first time in her life; or at least, since elementary school.
·      Daneen and another local foster mom started a foster/kinship/adoption support group for our community which is being hosted at our church. We are grateful to be a part of a church which desires to support the needs of our community in practical ways.
·      Sharing about foster care with our church congregation on Stand Sunday (also Orphan Sunday). We are blessed to have a pastor who leads his church well and is a great teacher, yet also recognizes the passions and strengths of his congregation.  
·      Our final placement of 2017 was a sibling set of 4 which really, stretched us. When we were overloaded with the challenges of these kiddos, we were blessed by our church community who desired to support us in a very practical way by providing meals.
·      When the court hearing unexpectantly ruled that the 4 children should be returned to their mother just 5 days before Christmas, we were thrilled for them!

BASKETBALL
Joe has been excelling in his roles at Dawson Community College. It’s certainly a challenge to balance his two positions of Athletic Director and Men’s Head Basketball Coach, which are both technically half-time positions (ha!) Some of his work-related highlights and blessings include:
·      5 of his 6 Sophomores (from Spring 2017) were recruited and are playing college basketball at higher levels.
·      Added Volleyball to the NJCAA Athletics Department at DCC; after it was defunct for 4 years.
·      Hired a new Assistant Coach who has been a valuable asset to the basketball program.
·      At half-way into the current season, their record is 13-4 (three of those four losses were to Top 25 teams).
·      The basketball team has been working hard and is excited to start the conference part of the season on Jan 8th.


CHRIST’S GIFT ACADEMY
Daneen continues to work part-time from home for Christ’sGift Academy. This role is a perfect fit for her gifts, abilities and for our family. We love getting to stay connected with what is happening back in Mbita, Kenya and having the opportunity to share the stories of the students and the ministry. She loves the flexibility that comes with working from home especially when we have children in our home! Some of the CGA highlights and blessings include:
·      Celebrating CGA’s 20th year of ministry in Mbita, Kenya
·      Communicating with’s CGA first-ever Kenyan Ministry Coordinator and being able to get timely updates on things happening on the ground in Mbita.
·      Receiving comments from supporters, sponsors, and church partners about how they enjoy and appreciate the updates on the ministry.
·      Receiving the news that 5 of our alumni graduated from college/university. These were all students who started university when we were still in Mbita. Two of our all-time favorite students were among these graduates. Steven Ogechi finished nursing school to become CGA’s first Registered Nurse. Ogechi gave his life to Christ in 7th grade after Joe shared the gospel to his class!! Moses started secondary school, through CGA, after being out of school for over 10 years. He is a living testimony of CGA and the importance of perseverance and waiting on the Lord’s timing.
·      CGA met the year-end giving needed to meet the needs of our financial budget.

SUBA LAKERS
We continue to also stay connected with our girls in the SubaLakers Football Club. Our focus has been to ensure the girls have the funds to finish their education. This year we have 9 girls who started their final year of high school last week. Most of them are all on a full or half scholarship for their football skills!! We are so proud of these girls and desire to see them have opportunities for a great future. Yet, as we talk about it last in this newsletter update, it’s also (unfortunately) gets the least amount of our time to focus on. There are some great highlights and blessings from the Suba Lakers this past year:
·       Lilian was recruited for to play on the Kenya National Football Team, the Startlets. Since late 2016, she has traveled to Botswana, Ethiopia, Uganda, Ghana, Morocco, Cameroon, and Jordan! She is the primary goal keeper for the Under 20 National Team and currently a back-up keeper for the Women’s National team. As a member of the national team she has received enough funds to not only pay for her own education but to also build her mother a house!
·       Alicent, who has been like a daughter to Joe, started college at Kenya Medical Training Institute studying Nutrition and Dietetics. A friend of ours has graciously offered to support her college education!
·       This coming Fall, Karen will graduate from Mawego Technical Institute with an Agricultural Diploma. Thanks to the support of a friend who have assisted with her tuition fees.

·       In December we received the report for the needed funds for the girls’ education for 2018 and, to our surprise, the needed amount was in the Suba Lakers USA account. The Lord is a great Provider.

A few additional 2017 highlights were:
·       Hosting the Watoto Children’s Choir from Uganda in Glendive, MT. For 3 days, our church had the opportunity to host this incredible group of children and adults. I knew the choir would be amazing and everyone would be blessed. But until they arrived and later performed, no one else had a clue how blessed they would be!! Daneen LOVED having a little bit of Uganda in Glendive. She even cooked them Ugandan-style beans and rice as well as chai and mandazi. The team thought they were in heaven when they got to enjoy a taste of home!! We love getting to be a part of a church who was open to bringing the choir to Glendive; and we were thrilled the Watoto USA team found a way to bring the choir to our off the beaten path (middle of nowhere) location!
·       We continue to the lead the campus InterVarsity at Dawson Community College. With it being a very small campus (approx. 250 students) it’s a challenging place to minister. This year we have had a solid group of students attending Bible Study each week. We partner with a number of local churches who provide a meal for the students once a month. This past fall we had 2 students attend the Montana Fall InterVarsity Conference and really learned a lot. We are thrilled that one of our DCC IV students has been accepted to go on a 6 week mission trip to KENYA with InterVarsity!!

As we start a new year, we literally have no idea what this year might look like. Our peace is in the fact the we know the Lord has great plans in store. Surely the year will be full of blessings and many lessons along the way.


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